Friday, August 3, 2012

From Dr. G's Embryologist

Hi A,

I hope this email finds your family well.  I need some delivery info for statistics on 2011.  I think that email is easier for most people, but if you prefer to call, my number is X and it is okay to leave a message.

I need the following:
Date of birth, number born, sexes, weights, complications, NICU?, SVD or CS, birth defects.
Also, we love pix!


Thanks so much,
S
Embryologist
XClinic

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Dear S,

I'm sure you are right, that email is easier - yours made me tear up a little because as I read it I was holding my son in my arms - something I wasn't sure would happen!

IM (I know you don't need his name, but we are proud of it), was born on May 25, 2012. He is a boy and a singleton.  He was born five weeks early at 4lbs, 6oz and 17in long.  He was delivered via c-section due to breech presentation and purposefully five weeks early due to my preeclampsia and a "mature" placenta (causing IUGR).  IM spent 12 days in the NICU - only to maintain temperature and gain weight, no respiratory problems or illness.

A strange thing happened during the c-section: the dr asked (while she was sewing me up) if we had ever thought we were having twins (maybe not the best time to ask us that!) as a result of transferring two embryos, I answered no and explained that we had a sonogram at 6wks 2days and there was only one.  She had asked because IM's placenta was heart shaped and double lobed (another cause of the IUGR, I believe).

THIS is a link to a blog post with now&then photos.  While IM was born at 4lbs, 6oz, he was up to 9lbs, 6oz at eight weeks old, along with a five inch length gain.  Which leads me to believe that our dr made a good decision in taking him early, as he grew much better and faster outside.

Let me know if you need anything else, S, and thank you so much for your part in bringing IM to us!

Sincerely, A

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Oh A,
What a little miracle you have there.  I am so happy for you!  Thanks for your details and congratulations.  I can only imagine how difficult those first few weeks were for your family, but he is growing and doing well now….so wonderful.  Very interesting about the placenta.  I had a similar experience with my last son.  We thought he was a singleton and found at birth that he most likely had been a twin.  You have very mixed feelings at that time.
At XClinic we feel blessed to help families like yours grow!  Most welcome.
Good luck in the future,
S


***I received this email on the 24th of July.  I did cry upon reading it and wanted to post the interaction because THAT is what you want from a clinic.  And it is the incredibly short story of what happened.  More to come.